DanZZ asked about my views on my DDs secondary education.
As I received many great responses from various parents on other threads, I feel almost obliged to answer you on this topic.
In summary
My DDs are in state primary, and will hopefully go to mixed state grammar, followed by university.
If they will however only go to single sex grammar (easier to get in, more of them), then I will think of changing a school for them at 16+ level to mixed grammar, mixed private or even mixed boarding school, finances permitting.
Importantly, when it comes to DD I have a strong preference for mixed schools at 16 - 18 level (though I am aware of statistic that girls perform better in single sex environment) as I feel that the journey into adulthood is best if it is gradual. The same would be true for boys, but somehow I feel that for girls this is of the higher importance than for boys (who nicely catch up at university). For instance, number of very smart career girls I know who went to top single sex boarding schools told me that they will not repeat this experience for their DDs, as despite the excellent education they received, they were not prepared to meet the boys for the first time at the university lecture hall. It was almost a shock for them.
As to boarding... i have no problem with it for girls per se, indeed I would prefer it for the girls too, but I fear that due to dominance of single sex schools in this country, the sacrifice made in academic quality in order to be in the mixed boarding school will outweight the boarding benefits with respect to that of the grammar school.
In some way, especially when your DD or DS is boarding, you want them to be surrounded by smart kids with similar academic ethos and career goals.
DanZZ, what route are you thinking of for your DD? I could be wrong with my view, so I would also appreciate any constructive criticism to my way of thinking.
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Secondary education
Views on secondary schools for girls: issues with single sex school and boarding schools
kris123 · 20/12/2010 12:22
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