Hi there,
I noticed a thread with regard to appeals, and thought that perhaps someone might be able to guide me in the right direction with regard to the hell I have been through or at least set my mind at ease.
We are Brits we moved abroad 18 months ago from the UK for many reasons. We were told the education system out here was superior to the uk and so much better, and off we went. However it certainly is not better at all, I could go on all day about the problems, but anyway... As much as we would love to stay, we felt our childrens education and future prospects to be more important than anything and returning for their education and future was priority. Our eldest is supposed to start secondary this September and we felt that it probably best we left to come back to the UK, so that he could start when everyone else begins secondary school etc etc.
Anyways, back in May I telephoned the school, was told to call admissions in county council, which I did, had to wait almost two weeks for someone to return my call and that was with me calling every four days querying.
I got a return call, explained the situation, that if it helped, I would come back to UK immediatley, but wondered if it was worth it, and if we should let him finish school here! My son would have been able to spend 3 months in the village primary school, which would have by their policies meant he was catchment to the secondary school we wanted, although was advised that it would make no difference as the secondary school was full. (although I dont believe this was correct.) I was told I had to fill in forms for application stating schools etc, which I did. Unfortunatly only putting the one school down. (mainly due to transport from the village and the other catchment school, well, its had two suicides from bullying recently! Hence my fear of writing it as second choice)
I explained reasons:
Transport issues.
Catchment area
Cousins that go to the school.
The village we live ins children all go to that school and our son knows them, and familiarity would help him transition back in to uk schooling.
That there is support there for him, that would help guide him back
etc
They wanted to know our UK address, which I gave, my father in law has a flat which is empty and has offered us to live there, as money will be tight on our return until we find jobs etc. However was told this wasnt applicable, and that family is not allowed, etc etc, then I was told I had to send a letter confirming he allowed us to stay there and also his bank statement (father in law) which I got faxed and emailed. As far as I knew that was all they needed. Anyways, I eventually get a letter stating we hadnt been considered for any schools due to not being resident in the UK. (this was on the third rounds) I was furious, after all the documentation they had wanted and told me to produce over the weeks to be considered and now, (NOT RESIDENT NO SCHOOL)
The department contraidicted themselves on many occasions, telling me not to rush back, etc etc wouldnt make any difference, and yet it did.
Eventually getting through to this woman, which is nie on impossible! I was told perhaps I should think about getting a legal rental agreement with my father in law. So off we went again to get this done. Sent this through and was told now, ok you will be considered now for the fourth rounds in July!!!!
Anyways, I decided to put an appeal in for the first school regardless, flew back to the UK at a massive cost last week to attend. The school stated they were full, and over by 12 appeals already, although there was mention that in earlier appeals, the headteacher had turned up at the appeal and said, yeh, we accept them all! The appeals felt school had a case, and had to go to the second rounds. Bear in mind I had created a 23 page letter and document of evidences with my contacts with admissions, and all the problems transport issues, friends etc, and felt that we were a unique case, out of the ordinary. In the second round, I was asked to state my case. I explained all the reasons etc, and questioned the schooling about previous years appeals, and that surely they could accept another due to the circumstances. I was also asked what mine and my husbands jobs were before we left the UK!!!! IS THIS RELEVANT?? and also what we intended to do workwise when we got back to uk???? Luckily I have a good work history, as does my husband, but surely this wasn't justified? I cannot get my head around the relevance of these questions.
Anyways, as I left the appeal I travelled 3 and half hours back to Gatwick, absolutely drained, told I would be given answer by afternoon, at 4.45pm, I had to call as nothing had come through via email or phone, and was told we had been declined a place. I was gobsmacked. My son devastated. Reasons for decline:
The factors below were not sufficient to override the prejudice which would occur if further students were admitted. and whilst they had the upmost sympathy for your circumstances, your appeal for CHILD to be allocated a place at.... should not be allowed.
#Comments relating to educational standards of school
Comments regarding transport
Family circumstances, particularly you living abroad and shortly returning
Your son will have family members at the school in september,
Practical difficulties if your son was to attend alternatice school
Ease of access to school
Your sons interests both in and outside of school.
I asked the Clerk to Appeal, why was I questioned about employment, that I felt it shouldn't be judged in anyway on what someone does for a living, he told me they just wanted to get a better picture, and know more about us and my son, which I might add, they didn't bother asking much about him at all.
Anyways, I am at my wits end. I tried telephoning admissions asking if I am still being considered for fourth rounds? to be told time again, they will make a note on the system as they cant put me through directly to the department, which is untrue and they never ring back. I phoned again two days ago, and surprisingly there was a lovely guy who understood the distress of not knowing anything, and the costs of calling. He came back to me with information that I would be receiving a letter in next couple of days with regards to a school placement.
Yesterday I got letter offering another school completely, in a totally different area, where non of the local children will attend, as well as the fact, we left the particular town due to past troubles there in our marriage, which Im happy to say we got through. (awkward, and not something I really wanted to bring up at appeals)
So now, I don't know what to do.
The school pleaded they couldn't take anymore, and quoted in the refusal letter: admission numbers the circulation through schools etc, I stated at the appeal, they had taken more appeals in the previous years.
The other school in the catchment area, is the school with the suicides, I am told its full also and would have to appeal. To be honest, I felt so demeaned at the appeal, I just don't feel I could go through that all again.
Sorry its so long, but I tried to explain as much as I could and even now is as brief as can be.
I have 12 days to accept the placement or decline, and its not possible for him to go there due to these past issues, but the only two other choices are full, and already been turn't down for one by appeal. Is there any hope???
Hoping for any guidance, advice.
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Kaisi · 14/07/2010 22:46
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