The mil has been on the phone after having a sulk for 4 weeks with no contact cos DH wont run round after his brother giving messages, To cut a long story short she left DH and 2 brothers and sisters when they were very small and DH hasnt seen her for 15 years until march of this year when he got back in touch with her. I think she,s unstable and obsessive,at first i just thought she was happy cos DH and his brother were seeing her again but - the women feels no guilt over dumping 4 kids says it was DH,s fathers fault cos he wasnt working and was doing dodgy things so she had to leave, she is demanding obsessive ringing up and staying on the phone for 2 hours at a time always trying to get DH up to her house on his own and making him stay upwards of 5 hours,anyway DH brother is out of work and not on the phone and cos we live nearer she expects DH to drive the 3 miles everytime she wants to give his brother a message. Well DH had enough and stopped it, she didnt call for 4 weeks and was off when he rang her. She has now got over her sulk and phoneing up every day, DH has tried to put her off coming down cos she stays for HOURS so when he tells her he,s working late she phones to check with me,she keeps critisising my parenting and last night said "give that baby to her dad she wants her dad" when i was on the phone to her..dont know what to do she even checks when i take the kids round to my mums, at the moment the phone is unplugged as i cant cope with speaking to her...sorry for the rant makes me feel better getting it off my chest!
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