I'm trying to be tolerant but am seething at the moment.
I live with my husband, three sons and a daughter (all under 7) and now we have two visitors. My BIL and his 20 year old son.
Here are just some of my gripes and tell me honestly if you think I need to lighten up and be more tolerant.
My entire house smells of boy perfume that my nephew uses liberally. I hate perfumes and avoid them in life.
He and his dad go to bed late (after midnight) and stay in bed late in the morning, in my study (where the computer is) coming. They make their own breakfast, slowly and messily and are IN MY WAYYYY! Ahem. Sorry.
As a SAHM this is my work space and they seem to loaf about in here sooooooo slowly it's making me furious. People wouldn't dream of hanging around all day in someone's office would they? Yet this is my workplace and I need all of it
To be fair, they're doing nothing wrong really. They want to visit the kids, my nephew just happens to like his smelly stuff (a lot) ... They're even contributing by buying the odd bag of shopping.
It's just that they seem to hang around and are in my way all the time. This house is already a bit small for us all.
DH is supporting me as much as he feels able (getting them to keep their stuff tidy, washing up after them etc) but they're his family so he loves having them here.
I don't know how long they'll be staying and I want to be nice to them. Any tips on how to tolerate this more? They're nice enough boys really.
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