Hi i have changed my name for this as several of my family now use mumsnet and this is personal. I saw a thread that was a bit like this one and decided it was time i got some advice from yuo lovley ladies!
DP had a very high sex drive, so he always wants sex. I seem to go through phases of wanting sex aswel but then can go for months without wanting it, i personally dont know why but i am not prepared to have sex if i dont want to just to please him.
I love DP to bits and i still find him attractive and i wouldnt do anything to hurt him. But after about 2-3 months of loads of sex i dont seem to want it anymore and this can last for a month or two, its not because im bored of our relationship or anything, but when i dont want to DP gets really moody, and keeps on and on at me which make me not want it more, then he gets depressed saying he must be crap in bed for me not to want him........ we also have the problem of he is always tired so he wants me to go to bed wth him early to have sex so he can sleep,i personaly dont go to bed untill late. If we do go to bed at the same time, he will try and hint he wants sex so i make it blatant i dont want to so he doesnt keep bugging me, i suggest we just have a cuddle instead so he rolls over and ignores me untill he falls asleep. i know in a month or so time i will want to again but this isnt good enough for DP.
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DrivingDPmad · 12/07/2005 07:25
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