Am I gay or is this normal?!!!

[twirlaround]

I have changed my name for this - advice please!
When I start to get to know other mothers at my daughter's school it feels a bit like having a crush on some of them or like falling in love - I find it exciting getting to know new, attractive and vibrant people - so is this normal or should I be getting to grips with a different sexuality?!!

[compo]

totally normal imo

[twirlaround]

Err, not sure. I do find them attractive but not actively considering snogging!!!

[twirlaround]

Maybe I am just very repressed though

[starlover]

completely normal! i also get this... get kinda fixated on the people that i like and want to get to know them more and spend time with them etc etc...

[twirlaround]

Thanks for the reassurance although it might have been a laugh starting over again as a lesbian

[starlover]

well maybe you should give it a go and see how you feel

[twirlaround]

Crumbs - hard enough negotiating flirting/ rejection etc in the heterosexual world!

And imagine if I negotiated my way through by chance and then changed my mind...far too complicated!

[twirlaround]

Yes trefusis - but only the women