Have been with DP for seven years and we ahve been having lots of relationship difficulties for the past year (won't go into it but lots of rows, tears from me etc) Had even considered splitting up but are continuing to try as he says he still loves me (though I fee like he dosn't) and for the sake of our two children. However now things are a bit better btween us he keeps wanting sex. I had gone off it after the birth of our youngest two years ago, then our arguments started and I simply didn't want to do it with him as at the time I didn't feel close to him atall. I now feel like I am still trying to get over the trauma of all the nasty agruments/nearly seperating stuff and I am being much more affectionate towars him. But when I give him a cuddle or a kiss he moves straight in for more and it just puts me off. I have said just give me time as its an emotional thing but I can understand hes getting pissed off going without it (sex happens very rarely now) but I still feel stung by evrything that has happened between us. Now the sex thing is becoming a big issue and it just seem there is always something going on to cause more trouble between us. I just need more time but he's starting to get the real hump about it all.
Any advice would be appreciated. Thanx
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kissalot · 11/07/2005 13:47
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