What do you do when everything is driving your dh mad, you don't want to speak in case you say the wrong thing - you are trying to make sure the kids are out of his way becasue he just shouts at them and me all the time. He seems to have 'gone off' us all and is wrapped up in himself and his thoughts.
I say whats wrong? He says he's just angry, peed off and not enjoying his two weeks off becasue the children are around.
In reality I am not helping becasue I am so unmotivated - i cannot get going and am having trouble taking any pressures off him. I can't face it all atm and its hard when people keep telling me to tell him I'm depressed - whats the point - he won't be able to help if he's so down himself.
I don't want to live in this atmosphere, I hate not knowing if he's going to fly off the handle any minute. He use to be so chilled out so it seems I'm not holding it together so its all falling about our ears!
Sorry this is confusing I think but I'm a bit mixed up! Sorry I just needed a quick rant. The children have sensed it all and are playing up accordingly - making life twice as hard.
I'm not even dressed!!!!!!! whoops!
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DH is driving me mad!!!! Hes so so stressed!
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Sax · 07/07/2005 14:33
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