My DS is 9 months old and the way my mum and her husband are with him is driving me mad. He is my Mums first grandchild and I appreciate that she loves him very much but she is so over zealous with him and can?t leave him alone for a second. Yesterday was the straw that threatens to break the camels back. It was my DS?s naming ceremony and we had about 60 guests, my DS was passed around the room (quite happily) for 2 ½ hours but my mum was never more than a foot away from him and took him off whoever had him at any opportunity. My brother lives miles away from me and only gets to see my DS every few months but even he wasn?t allowed any time on his own with him.
My mum and her husband even arrived for the ceremony 40 minutes early at the same time as us!! It is as if she can?t bear not to be a part of our little family unit. She looks after DS every Wednesday and I hate it because they are so manic with him, desperate to make him laugh and smile. It sometimes feels like they want to make him love them more than he does my DH and I.
I know I need to speak to my mum about all off this but I don?t know how to. She is very clingy (bad childhood) and quite needy but by not saying anything I feel it is putting our relationship in serious trouble.
Please help!!
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Abwab · 04/07/2005 13:01
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