Can't refer direct in case anyone I know reads...
Basically, a friend has been with her boyfriend for 4 years, they have no children but have a house together. She has recently met a much older man (married with 3 kids (oldest is her age - she is 25 and he is 47) and they have been texting what appears very innocent wording but has a flirty undertone that they both are fully aware of. She openly jokes about liking him - in front of her boyf too - but all very tongue in cheek.
Nothing has happened yet, neither have actually told the other they're interested but its apparent. They both spend more time than is necessary together.
Is this more than just enjoying each others company? Her boyfriend is very important to me and though she is too, I don't want to see him get hurt.
Any suggestions?
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Is it wrong to think about another man a lot whilst in a relationship?
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Zebraa · 20/10/2009 22:08
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