Briefly - been together for 14 years, married for 8, have three children. Things have been bad for a couple of years, and I had finally decided that I wanted the marriage to end.
Not actually said anything to him yet, waiting for the right time to talk to him about it. Today, I find out I am pregnant. Totally shocked. We had sex once in the last month, very reluctantly on my part - I laid there in the dark with tears rolling down my face.
I have no idea what I'm going to do now. I haven't told him yet. I don't know whether I want to keep the baby. I know I don't want to stay with him. I just can't. Not a clue what to do now.
Would really appreciate talking this through with people please. Am going to sleep now, will be around tommorrow.
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I'd finally decided I wanted to end the marriage and discovered I am pg today. Scared, no idea what to do now.
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nowwhatdoido · 17/10/2009 23:43
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