I have posted a bit on this subject before but this time it's huge.
Ex took ds on a day trip to his first proper football match and it was fab, a big deal and he loved it. I don't begrudge him that at all, it was a perfect birthday present.
My point is, he has nothing equivalent planned for dd
I even had to suggest a present idea for him.
Which was difficult because we usually get them similar things as they both ask for them. e.g. ipods one year cameras next. But he says he's not getting anything for ds now but he will get the camera for dd.
I can't afford to 'match' his pressie so I've thought that I could take dd to see her favourite comedian fo the moment, (or I could suggest that as his equivalent) but if I do I'd probably have to take ds as he likes him too.
Am quite confused over what to do for the best
Any suggestions
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Inequality, ex treating ds and not dd
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mamas12 · 01/09/2009 23:53
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