After a three week, 24/7 holiday with DH and DCs (8 & 11), I have woken up and smelled the coffee. Following tracks on other threads on MN, I have realised that it is not all in my head. My DH is controlling and manipulative. I am walking on egg shells all the time.
Part of our holiday involved a break with my parents, with whom we have not spent a lot of time recently. I could see on my dear Mum's face how shocked she was to see what I have become - downtrodden, lacking in confidence, miserable. As I am a graduate with a good brain, she wanted so much more for me. As did I.
But. I don't want to be a single parent. I want my marriage to be a good one. It has been good in the past and I can see looking back that DH's behaviour has got steadily worse. Is leaving the only answer?
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Emotional abuse - is leaving the only answer?
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LightShinesInTheDarkness · 01/09/2009 12:34
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