Hi, have posted before but wanted to start a new thread as I really need some advice on a different thing.
H left just over 2 weeks ago - we were "fine" as in an incident that occured 5 months ago prompted him to "change" completly and he's been treating me like a queen but I have rejected it as I felt what he did 5 mnths ago was unforgivable....i'm rambling...
Basically he left and then told me 3 days later this was defo it, as he had met someone else. Cut a long story short - he is "staying" with this woman - hasn't taken his stuff there yet as I took it all to my SIL's house, dumped it in the garage and I know for a fact its all still there.
He insists he did meet her AFTER we split, but what woman (who is by the way 10 yrs older than me!) would allow a relative stranger into her home (alone sometimes) if she didnt know him before???!!!
I have an app with a lawyer in 3 weeks time...advice I need really is - do I get her details and divorce him on grounds of adultery and name her ( as the sane part of me cant believe they have only know each other for such a short time - but I cant see how they could have been together for longer as he was always here beforehand)or do I just do it on grounds of unreasonable behaviour as you can pretty much take your pick on that score....
Would love some advice and welcome any questions!!!
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Really need some advice - what do you think? (sorry may be long)
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chickybabe · 05/08/2009 22:35
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