Hi, this may be long...! Felt i needed to explain my situation to people who dont know me i guess....(i've read some of your posts does dh stand for darling husband??? i will presume so)
I'm 28. Have been with dh(?!) for 11 years and married for 7. We have dd (9) and ds (3). To tell u all would be too long to type but basically we have been through pretty much everything u can in a marriage and then some.
Situation we are in now is that he left 2 weeks ago has already shacked up with someone else, and he is now having regrets. ?He has cheated before - very complicated situation so i took him back - has depression issues and has hurt me more than i ever thought anyone ever could, but ont the other hand made me happier than i ever thought too.
I am ready to get on with my life - I dont want to be divorced and without him but cant see another way as he just cant change (even though he is always convincing me he can and wants to - then i get blamed for trying to change him - whats up with that girls?!!!)and cant live this way anymore. My dd has taken it so well but its breaking my ds' heart.
As I predicted he acted hastily and without conversation - is now seeing the result of said actions - and is regreting it. We have told the children and I have made an app. with a divorce lawyer.
I'm happy to answer any questions - I know this may sound like a rambling mess - but how do u explain the last 11 years of relationship with people u dont know???!!!
thanks for reading xxx
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chickybabe · 04/08/2009 22:22
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