There are so many of us on here, I am sure this is not uncommon!
Why do they do this, are they so deluded that they believe everything they say??
XH had an affair 3 years ago on a background of being a non participant, emotionally abusive, insulting, distant husband and father!
He then spent the better part of 2 years playing the both of us and getting us both pregnant!
I finally decided enough was enough about a year ago but has taken me ages to finally move on!
I have filed for divorce, am seeing a lovely kind man, and trying to sort out the financial mess he left me!
He finally went back to the OW and they are together, I honestly truly dont give a shit!!
He just wont leave me alone, he is abusive aggresive, has threatened to kill my new DP to his face!
Lets the kids down all the time, manipulates DD1 in an attempt to get to me !
But now the OW has taken to chipping in, she is always there when he picks up drops off makes comments about ME being a crap parent, about the kids being happier with them blah blah blah!
Why the eff is she getting involved I am remaining neutral where she is concerned for the sake of my DD1's, she has seen first hand what he is like, does she/can she honestly truly believe him when he says its all me, is she mad!
She will get all she desrves of that I have no doubt, but why try and detsroy me what on earth is the point!!
Tonight she told me to move on aggggghhhh - I am bloody trying he is the one still torturing me!
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When the OW/new GF colludes with the abusive ex!
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macdoodle · 03/08/2009 18:53
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