his is my fist time posting (long time lurker). I'm really at a loss as to how to deal with my dh.
Little background - we have 3 dc under 4.5y.I'm a SAHM now, DH hates his work and seems to be unhappy/angry a lot of the time.
Our youngest dc wakes early every morning (9mo) and I deal with her usually until the others wake up (7.30am). At the first hint of noise dh starts shouting (will they ever fing shut up etc, for fs sake, I never get any sleep etc). Our youngest is still waking 4 times/night for food so I am pretty wrecked too. I find it pretty hard to have to cope every morning to him swearing/ranting on top of everything.
Our dc are great really (from what others say) but as with all children they squabble sometimes and are rude.
This morning, after DH has been ranting around I heard him say to ds 'I'll smash your face in if you do that again' ds had made a face at DH - the same horrible face he sees DH make when he is in one of his rants I might add.
I was shocked, I can in to the kitchen and DH tried to change it to 'I'll slap you if I see you do that again'...
We have never slapped in our house - mainly because I'm afraid of DH's temper.
DH keeps going on about discipline and how our dc will not respond to anything else - he does, but of course their behaviour is difficult when DH is ranting everyday.
How can I deal with DH?
I'm really struggling here with his moods.
I can't keep all 3 children quiet all the time.
I usually try to take the kids out of his way for a while every weekend to give him a break but it's not enough obviously.
Sorry for the rambling post - I just don't know how to deal with this and I don't want DH to lay a finger on our dc.
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DH's anger
lilypuss · 28/07/2009 11:43
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