My husband who left 9 days ago is threatening to go to a solicitor.
I dont want to get divorced, can he do this so soon?
Where do I stand financially. I work part time and make comparatively small contribution towards the household bills.
I have changed my salary to my account but my DH has insisted I pay £400 into the normal account towards bills. I threatend to cancel what I have set up nd he has said we would default on the mortgage or he will cancel my car payments and utilities (all in his name)can he do this?
If we got divorced I wouldnt be able to afford family home what would happen?
If I leave and go back to my hometown I would still be liable for half of mortgage which I wouldnt be able to afford.
Do the family courts take a dim view of a man who has walked and got a flat (450 + bills) and not tried to sort out his marraige?
It has been a gradual drifting, lack of sex and intimacy.
He is comming round to talk tonight and I want to know where I stand?
Very hurt and very angry he has said i have overeacted to him going. Coward.
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Scared this is going to end up in divorce
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namechange100 · 22/07/2009 13:59
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