Last week DH walked out after a huge row, some of which took part in-front of ILs.
I have not heard from them since.
They had DN visiting for the week and returned from taking him home yesterday, so I understand that they would have been busy. I also know they will be very upset and confused by the situation.
However I am now alone with DD living in a foreign country and with virtually no support system.
DD and I would usually spend an afternoon a week with them and we would also pass for the aperetif or lunch as a family at the weekend.
I know I ought to phone, not just because I behaved badly in-front of them but so that they can see DD and we can stay on good terms.
I suppose I just think they could have phoned or passed to see how I was or to offer to look after DD for a while. Or maybe they are too shocked and upset still.
Sigh. When did it all get so complicated?
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Should I call ILs or wait for them to call me?
steaknife · 22/07/2009 09:48
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