Got to be a quick one, apologies for lack of details.
Basically, I ended up looking on DP's phone this morning whilst he was at work. He has messages to and from his ex (divorced for two years) going on about money he owes her (he's never told me this) and he sent one to her saying "I have £10 for you on saturday"
At the moment we're struggling to eat yet he's giving her money behind my back?
Also one from him saying "I'll always take you around car boots in you want?"
Yesterday he said to me "I might start going around car boots ... but you won't want to come with me, will you?" now I know why ...
Also a text from TV licence to say it hasn't been paid for two months. I gave him two months payment on it so what has he done with that?
Am I over-reacting here? how do I bring it up without mentioning me looking on his phone?
He's been secretive with it lately and I think a lot of messages from his ex have been deleted.
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Am I over-reacting?
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BingBangBaby · 22/07/2009 07:16
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