Not really having problems with it (well, apart from it's not being done fully) and I am not sure what is fair with regards to splitting it. At the moment we are just muddling through, so wasn't sure if we should designate jobs. He works 12 hour days (gone 14), home at gone 7. I am a SAHM but... DS1 (3.4) is a handful, DS2 feeds all the time and needs watching, basically it's hard for me to get much done, as well as night feeding which leaves me exhausted. Is a 50/50 split fair, or me do most and he does the bits I hate (only a few really - anything to do with drains, any oven cleaning, any fridge cleaning, anything to do with the actual toilet and bins, oh and clean clothes away). I do feel I should definatly do most, if not all but I am worn out myself which I can't really help I guess... how do you split it?
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How do you split the housework? And in this scenario, how would you?
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LadyOfWaffle · 21/07/2009 15:51
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