dd1's bio dad is a complete flake. He left me when I told him I was pregnant, picked up a new gf and got her pregnant when dd was 10 days old, so dd has a half sister who is 9 months younger than her.
Ex didn't really want anything to do with dd for a long while, then when I married my dh, he came back on the scene. I thought things were getting better, he'd started to see dd on a Saturday, she'd even begun staying the night and forming a good relationship with her sister.
Then we found out from an old friend that the new gf was pregnant again. We sent our congratulations etc. Overnight visits had to stop as the gf said she was too tired to have dd staying over while she was pregnant.
We haven't heard from ex for over 3 weeks now. He just hasn't bothered to contact me about dd's Saturday visits at all. Something clicked in me, so I decided to search his and the gf's names on Facebook (stalker moment ) and sure enough, their profile pictures are of a newborn baby girl.
So, dd has another sister, but what am I meant to say to her? I don't know when she was born or what her name is. I've no idea when ex is going to get back in contact to see dd1 again- it seems he's got another dd and forgotten about dd1 for now. He did the exact same thing when his last child was born. It makes me and
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So apparently dd has a new sister...
cupofteaplease · 19/07/2009 09:00
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