I have written a few threads about my emotional abusive p. We split up cause he spat in my face while having an arguement. Since then he has been asking for another chance and said he would try and change things with himself and would even go see someone. There are alot of issues in our relationship as i have dc from previous marriage and ds with him and issues arise over my dc.
Well he has went on and on about us starting to date again so finally i went on a date with him at the weekend (please i no! but be gentle with me) we have a nice time just chilling and talking to each other.
The next day he did something which i wont go into but hurt me and i asked him why and he said he just did and that was it so we had a big arguement! We havent spoken in days and i texted him asking why he did what he did and he said it was silly and wasnt discussing it anymore and he has nothing more to say on the matter.
I was even contemplating going to counselling to try and get the relationship back but now i feel i am at a place where i was that day when he spat on my face, extremely hurt and let down! I felt i was doing really well too on my own with my dc until he started texting me things and getting into my head... Now i feel upset and feel like crying as i feel im owed an explaination but he doesnt think so.
Do i have to start going through the grieving process now all over again as i had in my head that we where gonna try and work things through but how can you when he cant even give me an explaination and what he says goes and thats the finish of it. I probably was being silly about the whole thing but it was the way he handled it after no explaining or no reassuring just im not talking about it. f f f* I need to get him outta my head and move on but it feels so hard this time.
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Feel lost and alone and so confused!!! really upset!
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missylea · 19/05/2009 11:51
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