I am in the process of moving in with my partner yet a load of doubts are starting to circulate in my mind.
He never phones me, ever. I think in our entire relationship he has maybe phoned me 3 times.
If he's seen me during the day, he will say stuff like "I won't phone/msn/text etc later as I've already spoken to you today" as if he's terrified of having to deal with me twice in one day.
I've noticed a little bit of controlling behaviour. For instance I mentioned a friend had started pole dancing for fitness classes and he said "oh, well I wouldn't want you doing that" as if I'd have to ask permision.
He just annoys me sometimes too, for no real reason ... like in town at weekend I was rushing around trying to find new shoes ... he was just dawdling right in front of me, getting in people's way etc ... in the car he acts as if he's the only person on the road.
Like last weekend a teenage lad was walking slowly across the road (as they do) and he didn't even slow down or anything, just drove directly towards him as if he wasn't there and then said "I'm not fucking moving for you, idiot" and I honestly thing he would have ran him over if the kid had not moved.
Sometimes he's really ignorent to people and then laughs, looks at me and says something like "I'm just like that sometimes!" as if its something to be proud of.
He's great in other areas but I don't know if I'm making a big mistake.
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Wondering if I'm making a terrible mistake
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Commisioner · 18/05/2009 13:34
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