Have namechanged as my dp knows my nickname.
Well, not sure what I want really, maybe just to rant.
Im fed up with my relationship. wondering if I should end it with my dp. I know there are some terible stories on here of awful things that people go through and this will probably seem petty but Im at a loss what to do.
Me and dp are just so funamentaly different I cant make it work anymore. To steel someone elses line, I feel like he is a dementor off harry potter, he is sucking the life out of me.
He is kind, decent man, does his fair share with our dd and around the house, works full time, is not mean or nasty to me......
He is also very closed, never talks about his feelings or emotions, a total TV addict and the weekends just stretch out endlesley with us never doing anything.
I have tried to talk to him, tried to get him to cheer up, do something, anything, he is happy the way he is...... Im not.
I keep in touch with my friends, go out and socialise with them by myself but I want a partner to do things with.
We had a bust up today, our dd is only one and really needs her sleep and its hard to think of anything to do around nap times, I suggested a couple of things, he didnt want to do them....... we had a row.
He got ready and went and met a mate for a drink at half one this afternoon, he is still out, quite unusual for him but I knwo he will be v.v drunk and Im dreading him coming home incase we have a row .
I know it all seems trivial but I have my own issues, a difficult realtionship with my mum, my dad died when I was young, have never felt loved and I dont now by him, I feel he is just going through the motions with me, he is not affectionate, we dont connect. I feel jealous as hell if I see anyoneout and about holding hands etc as he just wouldnt do that
Dont know what to do
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what shall I do?
wheredidmylifego · 16/05/2009 20:24
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