DH has barely touched me since DD was born 3 years ago. He says it is just due to work stress and co-sleeping. He also says it has been so long he is a bit "shy" to just jump in there without any building up to it. I haven't a clue what he means really; he can't just seem to grab me and get down to it. I have tried to make moves but will not be trying again only to be told he is not in the mood.
To be frank, it has put me off him and I am fantasising about sex with other guys. We are great pals but there is no sexual spark anymore. I feel if we ever do it I may have to think of someone else . I don't think I would ever cheat on him because I feel it is a totally shitty thing to do. But I am a young, attractive woman with needs. I don't have a high sex drive really. How can I live like this?
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I am so desperate for Sex, this is crazy
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CrushWithEyeliner · 15/05/2009 13:03
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