Quick background.
DP has no contact with MIL, he had a fair bit with FIL untill FIL's marriage broke down and FIL dissapeared off everyone radar for a while.
FIL then added DP as a friend on facebook and DP sent him a messages basicly saying 'Hi how are you, can you call me to let me know your ok........' basicly just a light hearted friendly message.
FIL updates his status very rarely but now he has so has obviously been on facebook but hasn't replied to DP, this has happened twice.
DP is getting really upset, doesn't quite know why FIL isn't speaking to him ect.
Anyway FIL is also my friend on Facebook and i have just messaged him a very blunt but firendly message saying 'Please call/email/txt DP he misses you and needs his dad around, he thinks he has upset you in someway, is this the case? We appreciate you have had a hard time but this is really gettng to DP.'
I haven't told DP i have sent FIL this message, i probably shouldn't have sent it but its eating DP up inside.
Should i fess up to DP or just leave it and see if FIL replies or gets in contact? Chances are he wont but you never know!
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TitsalinaBumsquash · 14/05/2009 22:45
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