brief outline of circumstanes. I'm sahm to 3 yr old. dh out at work 7.30am to 6pm weekdays.I got fed up last night as i nearly always do the washing up after dinner (aswell as cooking it - i do actually enjoy cooking so it's not usually a chore). I had a maon t dh about me do all the clearing up, washing up , etc and he said he did all the working and as he gets up at 6.30 (i dont' get up til he leaves at 7.30)its not unfair that i do more in the evenings. This may be true but i just hated the way he said it. he has since apologised and said he know i do alot too but still doesn't think it s unfair i do more in the evening.
Summary of what we do:
cooking - me
washing up - me
dishwasher - both
washing andputting away - both
ironing - mainly him
hoovering - Him when reminded, sometimes me
cleaning - me
bins - him
household admin - me
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Dh said "I do do all the working"
tooconfusedagain · 05/05/2009 10:19
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