am just in shock right now. had a fight with husband yest over nothing, he took offence to a comment i made which was meant as a joke and then pushed me so i fell and sprained my wrist. he did apologise today but says he still needs time to calm down before he can talk and if i go on about it am scared he will lash out again.
to be honest its the last straw, things have been so bad between us lately and he wont go to relate and refuses to talk. i feel so sad as the relationship used to be good and we have 18m old ds. i know when u have a fight its normal to lash out verbally but this is too much. also have constant digs that i dont "take care of myself" i know i'm a bit bigger than before ds but not much and i do lots of swimming etc. but dont know if its meant or just said in anger. am just questioning myself and have no self esteem.
dont really want to split up but have had enough of the anger and now i'm afraid if i try to talk will get hit again.
please help. cant really chat to anyone and both our families think the sun shines out of his a**e. he reserves all the anger for me.
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yummytummy · 04/05/2009 19:40
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