i wrote a thread a few weeks ago saying the my dp spat on me in an arguement and being mentally abusive. I have 2 dc from previous marriage and ds with him.
I just felt he never accepted my dc and said that he would never feel the same for them as his own ds and i told him that i would rather live on my own with my dc and bring them up equals as him making a difference.
He has since came crawling back and said that he is gonna go and get help and i said that i wouldnt even contemplate speaking to him ever again if he didnt.
I was doing well over the last few weeks and getting on with my life with the help and support of you ladies but basically he has been texting and saying that he really wants things to work and will do anything. He is starting to get into my head again and i was thinking that if he gets help for himself maybe him and i would go to relate to help our relationship.
I am still extremely angry and feel the trust has been ruined in the relationship so today we had another arguement as he was taking ds to birthday party but not taking my other dc (i dont know if its me expecting too much of him as they are not his children) and he often reminds me of this! he said that we arent together so why should he take them??? I told him to shrove it and i would take my dc out with me!
He has just sent a text saying that we would be better to leave things and there is no point as the relationship is a diaster. So why now am i feeling hurt and sad whenever i was doing ok before??
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help need some words of encourage to keep me going!!!
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missylea · 04/05/2009 17:18
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