I guess I am just looking for some sympathy. It's nearly three years since my DH left us for someone else, and I don't seem to be moving on with my life. It was a long marriage, and a shock when he left when our DD was only a few months old. He now has a baby with OW, and will be getting married soon (has recently applied for a divorce from me) and his life is going really well.
I am ok financially and have a good job, and on the surface I probably seem to many people to have a quite a good life and be coping well, but I am not really.
I have an amicable relationship with my ex DH, but in some ways in makes it worse because to me he is still the man I loved so much. It hurts so much that he and the OW have everything that I ever wanted - a family and love in their life.
I know this sounds really pathetic, but I am so miserable, and I am scared that it will never get better. The thing is that because we have a DD, I can't just forget him - he will always be there in the background of my life, if that makes sense.
His parents are visiting so this morning we all had breakfast out (me, DD, him and his parents) - it was pleasant, but then they all went off to join his new family to spend the day together, including my DD, while I came home alone.
As my nickname suggests, I am trying to get on with my life, but I feel like there must be something wrong with me, because he couldn't love me.
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Feelingoptimistic · 04/05/2009 14:21
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