Brief background:
Until dd was one dh did almost nothing either around the house or with her. He would sometimes take her for a walk or to the park (he did this I think 5 or 6 times), he changed maybe 3 nappies in that year and he ironed his work clothes-that was all.
Then we found out I was expecting ds so I made him learn how to fold/unfold the pushchar, strap her into her carseat, got him to change more nappies, do some washing up, hoover occasionally....
He now:
Leaves for work at around 8.45/9am and returns at 6.30pm.
He then baths the children and gets them ready for bed.
We usually put one each to bed.
After dinner he will usually wash up (75% of the time)
He puts the bins out and mows the lawn
He does most of the ironing (we don't iron everything, just trousers/skirts/outer tops)
DS wakes at 5am so I bring him in bed with us and feed him, he'll then climb all over me until 6.30/7am when dh will get up with him and give him his breakfast. I stay in bed and try to get a few minutes sleep until dd wakes (usually 7.30/7.45am). DH also dresses ds most days.
If either child wakes in the night I deal with them.
DH is starting to act hard done by (particularly regarding getting up with ds in the mornings and washing up after dinner) so I am now feeling guilty and as if I expect him to do too much. What do you think?
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Does he do too much?
OhIDunno · 01/05/2009 12:25
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