Posted around New Year, basically DH had been seeing a friend of mine - 'had a real connection, very attracted etc etc"", same old story.
Anyway, we are still together, and things are going well for us, he is trying really hard to make this the kind of relationship we both want.
Problem is I cannot stop obsessing over her-I have never confronted her in any way. I see her fairly regularly at dd's swimming. So far I have just blanked her and not even looked at her. But it's driving me crazy, I spend so much time, thinking about what I should/ could say to her. Reliving the times she was with me, being all friendly whilst seeing my husband behind my back.
Next week DDs have an Arts Festival school thing, and I've just realised I'll have to tell DH he can't go. I can't deal with the idea of the two of them in the same room.
Any ideas on how to get her out of my head?
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I really do have an enemy
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