Okay so a bit of backgroud -
I've been moaning allot about my friends who have generally been crap since my dd was born. I'm really lonely and struggle to get into town on the bus while pregnant and have 2yo dd.
This friend has canceled on me a few times in favor of her bf, really crappy excuses too. She had a messy split with her old dp shortly after my dd was born. I made such an effort to support her while struggling with a non-sleeper and pnd. I even helped her move flat and tried to get her out and about again. So after a while she started going out, meeting people and I couldn't go out much because of dd. After a while she stopped asking me to come out and I would occasionally meet her for lunch. She then got heavily involved with new bf who is very controlling and not very keen on me.
She emailed me asking if I want to meet for lunch tomorrow or go for a walk in the city center park.
I have been in town yesterday and today and my bump is quite sore. I was planning a day at home tomorrow to rest and do house stuff.
I do want to see her because I miss her, but I'm so bloody angry with her for not responding when I've said I'm lonely and struggling. If I go tomorrow I'll have to go by bus and it's always a faff. I don't want to try and talk to her about it all because I'll get teary and end up being an emotional mess. If I ask her to come to my house I know she'll say she doesn't have time etc because I live quite far out of town.
I'm tempted to send a nasty email back saying, oh now you can spare me a few hours, how generous of you Princess Selfish Tits.
What do I do?
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Confuzzeled · 30/04/2009 19:13
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