I posted last week about a sleepover at new partners house. Basically in that episode, my two kids and his 12 year old dd did nothing but gang up on each other, tell tales and drive us nuts. DP did nothing at all about his DD and 100% of the blame went on my boys.
Now this weekend went much better. I warned my two before hand that they'd be no tell-tales, no arguining and no excluding.
They all behaved quite well but there was still a bit of rivalry going on. Again DP did nothing at all about his DD's part in it.
What really bothers me though is that she was constantly diving on my DS, jumping on him, dragging him around, slapping and kicking him (not aggressively but still winding him up), sitting on him ... basically just causing agro with him. DP did nothing at all to stop it and when DS reacted he was the one that got told off.
Anyway I've just been speaking to DP and he said "I thought the boys were good this weekend, they just spoilt themselves towards the end" that was when his DD was sitting on DS and throwing his around the living room floor!
I'm not an over-protective type but he seems totally blind to the fact that his DD is just as bad as my two boys. There is talk of us moving in together but the way it is at the moment, my kids are going to get the blame for everything and his DD is going to get away with murder.
Or am I over-reacting?
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HagridsHut · 19/04/2009 22:43
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