dh and i have been together 11 years and married for 4. When we first got together sex was good, it was good when we moved intogether and it was good up until ds was born. Then it was just ok but gradually tailed off. had dd and since then it was pretty much non existent. He finally admitted his willy was sore so went to the doc and was circumcised in February.
I thought the situation would get back to normal and we'd be having regular sex again but it hasn't happened that way. We've had full sex twice and a couple of aborted attempts. I was beginning to feel really unattractive,,,,,, fat and generally horrible. I tried to talk to him this morning but he said ' ewell you never tried and touch me or anything' and that i'm putting him under pressure
i really don't know what to do now or what to say or anything - i'm not a very self confident person and can often take things too personally or not in the way that it was intended.......anyone any advice???
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blushingm · 17/04/2009 08:38
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