I was wondering what you all thought to my situation. I would be most grateful for any views.
I feel messed up as I don't have close relatives. I just don't. My parents are both dead and I have no siblings. I have a lot of cousins but I am just not close to them. None of them are especially interested in getting close, most of them are like strangers, apart from one who is lovely. I speak to her sometimes over the 'phone and see her once a year. Then there is an aunt I used to ring and see occasionally (I don't live near them as I hate living in Suffolk where they mostly all are). However she is too old now and gets very crotchety so I don't talk to her much these days now as I feel worse from it as she makes silly comments.
As I say I feel very messed up by this. Friendships just don't fill the void. I keep thinking finding a relationship will help. I have lived with 4 men over the years and am currently 45 and have a 4 year old. Whereas I think it would most definitely help to have a happy relationship what do I do about feeling messed up about having no family. Of course I do have my lovely boy but I support him i.e. he can hardly support me, if you see what I mean!
The only person I have to turn to is my ex, I am sick of depending on my ex if I am feeling very unhappy. Friends don't understand as they all have relatives/enough people in their lives.
What do I do to improve my wellbeing? I have had counselling over the break-up with my ex, which was 4 years ago, I don't see how more counselling would help.
Has anybody got any advice?
Thanks in anticipation!
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reikimarie · 16/04/2009 20:42
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