Did you wait until it was really bad before you left?
Things are not good between me and H at the moment. A lot of rows, passive aggressiveness, controlling behaviour. We haven't been intimate with each other since the conception of our youngest child. I am beginning to wonder if I should call it a day and leave. I'm pretty sure that my feelings for him have been eroded, and each further incident is like a nail in the coffin.
The only thing is that no one incident on its own is that bad. It is more the cumulative impact.
We have 2 young children together, and it seems like an enormous step to take. On the face of it, our life together is pretty comfortable, we have a lovely home, and I know it sounds shallow, but I would hate to lose all of that.
If it was intolerable, the decision would be quite straight forward. However I can't bear the thought of living the rest of my life like this. On the other hand, I was badly affected by my parents splitting up, and I would hate to do this to my DC.
Does it need to reach crisis point before you separate? For those who have split up, have you regrets?
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TheYearOfTheCat · 12/04/2009 19:18
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