I am afraid I am in a big sulk with DH (whether it is fair or not).
He has neglected me lately and I just want to feel a bit more special.
Now, I don't want to leave him or anything quite so dramatic, I just want things to be a bit different. He is a quiet type who doesn't express himself very well and I am quite lively and probably a bit emotional. I am quite 'high' at times and great fun or can be a bit low at others if things not going that well. DH maintains a steady medium 100% of the time and never ever gets excited/upset about anything.
The trouble is when I get upset with him for not making a fuss of me he still does nothing and it is driving me mad. I don't leap in with both feet and have a go at him unexpectedly I do lay gentle hints that I would like to do things with him and then make a fuss of him so it might be reciprocated but to no avail. He says he really loves me but I don't know if he finds me overpowering, too demanding (not asking for extravagant nights out just time together away from TV) or if he is just a bit lazy!!!
Do you have any experience of this type of person??? I feel that I give alot and don't really receive what I am after. Don't mean that in a selfish way just want some fun with DH...
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Sulking with DH!!
MaplePecanPlait · 10/02/2009 09:54
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