I have had a contact order for a few months and my daughter has been seeing my XP. She has just turned 3 and has been seeing him once a week since around October. She often comes home quite upset but always leaves to see him without that much fuss. Recently I asked him to start paying child support and after much messing about he agreed. Ever since he has been very argumentative and aggressive to both me and my DH. Yesterday when she returned from contact she was inconsolable and stayed very upset for the rest of the day. She says that he had told her that my DH who has raised her since she was a baby is not her daddy and that he was not there when she was born and a lot of other stuff that she is not old enough to understand and is not appropriate to talk about to a child her age. I have explained the situation to her and have never misled her or refused to answer her questions on the matter. He was clearly very aggressive and scared her a lot. She is now saying that she does not want to see him again as he scared her yesterday. The problem is I have a court order saying that he must see her. But I done want my usually very happy DD seeing someone she is scared of. Does anyone have any advice on what I should do next? Thanks
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Urgent advise needed, have a contact order but DD says she doesn't want to see her father.
jessiesmummy · 08/02/2009 18:37
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