hi ladies
im a new poster on here but i am searching for some help/advice.
been with DH 8 years married for 2. we have 1 DS who is 17months.
basically there is no sex, no intimacy at all, i have to ask him to kiss me and even then its on the cheek.
i raised this with him 6months ago, he said there was no problem, but anyway i lost weight, am making the best of my appearance dress nicely etc etc tried everything in the bedroom, spoken to him countless times and still nothing.
i recently had an operation, i was scared out of my wits and his parting words to me as i went for my anaesthetic were 'have fun'. that just about sums everything up.
now i've started seeing this guy from the past, we've met up once, kissed thats it. we now text all the time and speak on the phone as and when. im really really close to taking things further on a phsyical level. he is always telling me how beautiful i am etc etc and that is just amazing.
not sure what to do.
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mummy07 · 04/02/2009 09:17
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