Cross-posted in Mental health as well.
And I'm not posting in AIBU because I'm feeling quite fragile and not up the general, urm, 'robustness' one gets over there.
Some folk may recall I have posted a couple of time over the last few weeks about feeling depressed/knackered not happy about my body etc. Well, the depressed feeling is not lifting and now I think it's time to go the docs. Long story short, I've had some mental health issues (severe PND) believe me I know the signs. My feeling is, things aren't getting better. Time to see the docs and get some ADs. I know they are not for everyone, that's fine, but for me they have been - literally - a life saver.
Have also been with my DP for around a year. We do not live together. I am a single parent to a lovely - but demanding - DS and work full time. So as you can imagine my life is pretty knackering as it is and I'm constantly juggling.
Anyway.
DP and I have been arguing a bit lately leaving me feeling worn out, I'm not a tempestuous person or an arguer and I find it very draining. I want peace and quiet in my free time. LOL. He is under stress trying to find work etc. He's been a bit short tempered, I've been tired, not a great combination.
Today I tell him I am going to the docs (see above) and he tells me that is not a good idea, exercise and cod liver oil will sort me out. I point out that it's a bit more serious than that and as I've had problems before I know what I'm talking about. So then I get a lecture on mental health and how pills are dangerous etc etc and can promote suicide, his dad knows all about them and used to sell them so he KNOWS they're bad etc whole tone of which was very patronising. I responded fairly calmly I think and sad that really upset me and I was quite angry and would he please leave me alone. To which I got a petulant response about he was having a hard time too and blah blah (it reminded me of my 4 year old stamping his feet and saying NOT FAIR).
To be honest this outburst is the last thing I needed. Reading back this all sounds a bit muddled up but he has done this before - been petulant and angry, picking a fight - and it's wwearing me out.
Right now I'm tired and depressed to be objective about this so I guess I;m looking for some clarity. Thanks.
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Janos · 03/12/2008 19:11
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