I love my dh dearly. We have a beautiful ds, who is 2.8. We live in a lovely 2 bed flat with our own garden. We have 16 years left on our mortgage, which is pretty good considering we're only 32.
The trouble is, dh can't see how we can possibly afford another dc (I'm not pregnant, but want to start trying in the next year or so). The flat would be too small for 4 and we'd need a house eventually (but I'd quite happily put them in bunk beds for as long as possible).
I don't see anything wrong with adding a couple of years onto our mortgage to make buying a house more affordable. I'm not talking about doing it now, but in a couple of years when the housing market has settled down a bit.
Am I being naive and stupid or is dh being melodramatic? How can I persuade him that having another dc would not leave us financially ruined? Or do I just have to sit tight and trust that it will all work out in the end?
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If your dh was reluctant to have more dc, how would you persuade them?
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bouncingblueberries · 03/12/2008 08:11
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