Well it looks like db and sil are going to split - relatively amicably as far as these things go and as far as I can tell as an outsider. I feel very sad and unsettled at the prospect of losing my relationship with sil and with the cousins - my children and db's are the only grandchildren in either of our extended families so these relationships are important to me and my children. But, obviously, my first loyalty is to my brother and I desperately hope he will have a happier future. I am pretty angry at some of my SIL's treatment of him, but still hope that we will be able to feel part of a wider extended family, somehow...
I just wonder what is the best way to go about trying to maintain these relationships under different circumstances? Has anyone managed to keep up good relationships with the divorced side of the family? I'm fed up with my brothers' failing relationships (other db has had a series of relationships but never been married) - seems I'm destined never to have any female relatives even by marriage!
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a divorce in the family - share your experiences please...
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elliott · 02/12/2008 09:26
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