I have a few questions and I wonder if anyone could help, ideally soon?
Ok, H and I have been having problems for a while, today I asked him to leave. He refused. He said it's his home (it's in both our names) and I can't make him leave. He said me and dd (10 months) should leave instead. After much arguing and an upset dd, he finally left but I think he will be back.
So what are my rights if he returns and refuses to leave? Ideally we would sell the house and split the proceeds but until I find something else I would like to continue living here with dd.
Also, his parents, his mother in particular, has been verbally and physically abusive to me (swearing at me, slapping and pushing me). H will go to live with them and will probably continue to live with them even if we sold the house (he has lots of debt, so probably would struggle to get another home, I pay the mortage on this one). They say I should not have had dd as she's spoilt! and badly behaved!
I worry about dd's safety up there. If he gets access, how can I stop him from taking her up there? No, I haven't ever called the police on my ILs, I really should have so is there nothing I can do to keep them away from dd?
lastly, he has threatened to go for full custody.
I am so scared. I don't want to lose my baby or my home (at least until I have somewhere to go )
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asked him to leave - please help?
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scottishmummyofone · 30/11/2008 14:20
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