I've been with the same bloke for 18 years, since I was a teenager. Two lovely children. I'm bored stiff - we exist in the same house and rarely have sex. I've tried to talk to him but he doesn't respond in any meaningful way, goes back to talking about work all the time and never initiating sex. He doesn't socialise so bit by bit I've lost all my mates by moving.
I'm desperate to have some fun and keep thinking I'd like to just get out, but I know thats selfish and bad for the kids.
He's nice, helpful, good with the kids, hard working and we've shared lots. Its not enough at the moment.
Tell me to just knuckle down and accept I'm a mum now and can't go anywhere
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Come and slap me.
Address · 22/10/2008 14:18
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