sorry me again!
was talking with DP last night. (you may know he's met DS in the capacity of a kick about int eh park with him for an hour) he'll be meeting him again on boxing day, and i've agreed for him to meet him more after then and slowly slowly introduce them.
my proposal is once ever 6 weeks, then maybe once a month and basically over say 6/7 months if not a bit longer build up to him seeing him during the week.staying over as well.
DP feels that by keeping them 'hidden' from each other it will be worse for DS?
my only concern is DS's well being, i'm trying to do what I feel is right. DP is thinking more once a week for dinner and once a month on a w.e.
DS see's XH every other w.e at the mo, but I am certain for the minute I don't want DS to have XH one week and DP the next iycwim.
so how did you do it?
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SpandexIsMyEnemy · 19/10/2008 09:36
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