I have 2 DD's; 2years old and 3months old. They're both fab. I feel like my DH doesn't get how vulnerable I can feel. He's not good when I get overwhelmed and need help. He interprets my need as his being under attack, then gets defensive and is really mean to me. Sometimes it's gets a bit much having 2 LO's constantly demanding things of me and I need a hug but I rarely get one, and then only if I ask for it.
I haven't had any time for myself in recent history and am not feeling good about myself anyway (still in maternity gear).
I'm BF DD2 and my milk supply has crashed twice after arguments with DH because I've felt so low. We have no family around (both my P's died when I was younger) and his live far away.
I've seen GP and neither of us think I've got PND. We are going to Relate- only had one session.
I believe that DH has a problem in the way he handles close relationships and that I've tried really hard to be fair. But I feel so unsupported by him.
I really lost it last night and got v angry and shouted in front of both DDs then felt terrible. He just left me alone, then refused to talk about it. Now he's angry with me. I'm desperate for someone to come and be kind to me.
Is this normal?
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What's normal? Feeling very low and vulnerable and unsupported...
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DancingShoes · 12/10/2008 11:05
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