Hey, this post will be long sorry....usually post on "spcial needs" forum as my 17 mnth old DS1 has a genetic disorder resulting in severe epilepsy, global development delay and hypotonia(v.low muscle tone), has at least 1 seizure a day, can't sit unaided and prob won't walk til 4 or 5, he is my partner of nearly 6 years' son, also have a DD1,7 from prev relationship who calls my partner dad as her real dad has nthn to do with her(his choice for lst 2,3 years) BASTARD, anyway... with all this t deal with my partner has not lived with us for bout a year and a half, due to the fact I found out he was taking cocaine, n kpt catching him in my house with it before my Ds1 was born, but me being stupid believed him evrytime he sed he would stop...and as I was preg with my ds1, also had 2 miscariages before having him,so stressful time as it was, but def no excuse, also had miscrriage jan this year, by accident this time, but still hurt tremendously, also went thru horrendous pnd after ds1 was born, so eventually after ds1 was born...sometime after, as i was gettn over pnd I found cocaine by going thru his wallet and thru him out...and ever since he hs not lived with us, but still been seeing him, I know, stupid amn't I? But will not let him come bk as still do not trust him, but hand on heart hav not seen any signs of him being on it since he left, but, he has bn really abuive in arguments,not violent, but mentally, mking fun of me, as I hav put on bit weight, tellin me in explicit detail how he has bn with other people then bktrackin afterwards saying he was trying to hurt me etc , calling ME a "nutter" as I am on diazepam from Dr t help me deal with my DS1's probs, as I am devastated, but even tho he is simply evil a lot of the time, I still text n phone him after it etc WTF?! Why can't I finish it and mean it?! My dd1 is older nw and realises wat is going on, wen e argue etc and don't want her to think this is how a man shud treat u etc...see he stays just up street from me at his dad's home nd his friends live across the road from me and I know I would find it soo hard t finish it as I will see him everywhere ....but he has draggd me dwn to feelin like nothing, and veryone says to me all the time"why are u still with him"?! Pls hlp me
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Partner being a dick...pls hlp me finish it and MEAN it, and advice on how t stop texting and phoning him!!!!
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caitlinnjacksmummy · 02/08/2008 16:41
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