Husband left

[juliec26]

hi- my husband left me yesterday and we have a 2 year old little girl and I am completey deversated - he says he is having a nervous breakdown - he has a very stress full job own his own estate agent, which is suffering in the current climate - he swears and promises me there is no one else and I do really believe that, but I am soo scared and cant stop crying and feeling sick and desperate to see him - he says he loves me, but not sure how he does and that he needs time to think about stuff as he doesnt now how he feels - We have a very trying little girl and he finds her very stressful - any advice? x

[lilyloo]

Julie couldn't not post , so sorry where has he gone ?

[Sanctuary]

Have you spoke to him since he went??

[beeny]

Involve close family,to help him.hope you ok.

[juliec26]

not sure where he is staying - just said he needs time to think about things as he is not sure how he feels - says he doesnt feel like him - we had no argument and never saw it coming - I asked if he as having a breakdown to which he said he thinks so as he cant stop crying! all my friends and family have been a great help to me - we chatted via email and he says he loves me very much but is confused about everything as he feels unhappy and doesnt know why?? I have suffered with depression since having my little girl, but I know I love him and cant bear the thought of being on my own as I miss him so much already! just want him to come home so as I can help him through it! but I am scared he wont come back and I wont be able to cope as I feel so sick already and desperate to see him!!

[lilyloo]

Have you told his family ?
Someone needs to know where he is staying ?

[HappyWoman]

TRy and be strong - you will cope but you need to find out what is going on - he is not being fair on you at all.

Yes it may be a stressful job but what about the stress he is now heaping on you.

There could still be someone else though - they never admit it even if there is anywyay.

However bad it gets make sure he takes responsibility for you lo too

[HappyWoman]

Yes he must tell you or someone where he is at least.
Dont be afraid to tell his family also.

[juliec26]

i have spoken to his brother and he has had contact with him - i am staying with my sister so told him to go home but not sure if he will - just concerened he is having a breakdown and might do something silly